On the other hand, when a woman acknowledges him for all the things he’s doing well, he will almost certainly want to deepen the relationship and stay in it. We’re supposed to be emotional robots with no feelings or desires and just accept anything a guy is doing without complaint? You create a relationship with those qualities by inspiring those things within the relationship.
The problem with neediness is that instead of inspiring all of those positive relationship qualities, the “needy person” acts as if their partner is denying them those good relationship qualities…
So many women can recount numerous relationships during which they found out that their guy was not faithful.
If someone doesn’t feel worthy, they might do something they don’t really want to do, because they don’t have the courage or strength to say so.
They may be coming from a place of fear rather than a place of personal love, respect and power.
The Girls Empowerment Workshop teaches girls that they are valuable and have a voice, by giving them information and tools to use.
We talk about when you need it (always), who should do it (everyone), and why it matters (because your emotional/mental well-being is SO important! We know that to be in a healthy relationship we each need time for ourselves and our own interests, but sometimes even when we’re single our work and school schedules can get in the way of us truly taking the best care of ourselves.
It’s important to remember to have fun, to relax…to stop and smell the roses!